If you had asked me a month ago can you crochet? I would have said, I am more of a knitter than a crocheter. I have tried to crochet and just not been able to do it quickly and gone back to my knitting. I know how to do a single, a double, a triple and I can read the pattern to help someone with the pattern, but I have never done anything more than a dishcloth. I would try and just not be able to do it. Everyone told me how crochet was so much faster- obviously they never saw me crochet. To add to my crocheting woes, I am left handed and just couldn’t quite get it right.
Well I have embarked on my first actual crochet pattern and I didn’t just pick a simple hat or shawl. I jumped right in with a blanket that starts with a mandela and works out into a square. A 96″ x 96″ square blanket. There are over a hundred rounds and each round is different. It was a pattern I saw that intrigued me. I wanted to do it.
I am going stitch by stitch and round by round and it is coming along quite nicely. I am learning a lot and am gaining confidence in my ability to crochet. I can now say I CAN crochet. Sometimes we talk ourselves out of doing things saying we can’t do it. How are we going to learn if we don’t at least try? As long as you are enjoying the process, that is all that is important. You don’t need to be the best or the fastest. Our hobbies are about giving us something we can do that give us pleasure. It is a bonus that with knitting and crocheting we get a useful finished project as opposed to say stamp collecting or some other hobby.
Sometimes we use excuses – like I am left handed so it is too hard to figure out how to do it from all the right-handed pictures. I think we just need to find the right project, the one that inspires us to keep going. A lot of people ask me what is it I should make now that I can knit and purl. I always ask what do they want to make and what type of knitting is it that drew them to knitting. Do you like fair isle? Cables? Entrelac? Then that is what you should try. You don’t have to start with something complicated. Was it a certain yarn that you liked the colour of? Then get that yarn and knit with it because it gives you joy, not because someone said that it was appropriate for a beginner. I didn’t decide – this is my first crochet project so I am going to use the cheapest yarn possible, I chose a yarn with which I thought I would enjoy working. Life is too short to use crappy yarn or knit or crochet something because someone tells you it is what you should do.